How can I get over my ex whenever he....?

I think he misses you and I definatly believe that he's afraid to admit his feelings for you, I don't know why guys are like that such a closed book it's really a shame because you can never feel or tell what they're thinking. But to me he sounds like he wants you back and I think you should be upfront and ask him if he wants to be back with you again and for him to give you a straight forward answer because if you never ask then you'll never know.